This page is an offshoot from my other site, www.succeedsocially.com, a free collection of articles on basic social skills, getting along with people, and getting your act together. On that site I had written a handful of articles with some basic advice on getting experience with women, being a virgin, and whatnot - basically stuff that may be relevant to socially awkward guys. But I decided to move that content here and keep the other site purely about people skills.

This site isn't about specifically how to get more dates or pick up any girl, there are already tons of resources out there for that. Rather, it focuses more on remedial issues such as getting initial experience, overcoming anxiety around the opposite sex, getting your personality and people skills up to a passable level, not succumbing to various pitfalls, and whatnot. Like the name implies, it's about acquiring a foundation to do better with women in the future.

I'll be the first to admit I'm not some expert on dating or seduction. I have little interest in being another 'dating guru' either. So I'll largely stay clear of the comparatively advanced (and covered elsewhere) stuff and talk about what I do have experience with; how guys who are way below average in their dealings with women can pull themselves up to a more average level, and all the issues that go along with that.

As an offshoot, I'm not planning on updating this site all that consistently or trying to write a million articles. More than anything, it's a holding pen for some writing that I think is useful to many guys, but isn't a good fit for www.succeedsocially.com any longer. I'll put up new stuff when it comes to me, and when I think I have something to say that hasn't been covered elsewhere, but I don't want to force anything. At the moment, my main area of interest is more general people skills, which I write about on my other site.

-Chris

Fundamentals:

People Skills And Basic Attractiveness - A Foundation For Getting Women

Sexual Inexperience

Being A Virgin After High-School Is Not the End of the World
For Guy Virgins: Basics Things No One Told Me About Sex
Three Main Areas Sexually Inexperienced Guys Need To Work On
Why Sexually Inexperienced Guys Shouldn't Be Too Picky With Women
Trying To Learn How Up Pick Up Girls Can Sidetrack Very Inexperienced Guys
Taking Drastic Action To Get Sexual Experience If You Can't Do It Yourself

Getting Over Your Fears

How To Get More Comfortable Talking To Strange Girls
Common Magic Bullets That Guys Hope Will Cure Their Fear Of Women

Relationships:

A Quick Note About What Relationships Are Like

The 'Seduction Community'

A Long List Of Ways The Seduction Community Can Make You Weird