Articles on the Seduction Community
As the title says, this sub section of the site contains my thoughts on the Seduction Community.
I'll spare you my life story, but suffice to say I got into this scene years ago, as a very awkward, inexperienced guy. For a while I epitomized the typical Seduction Community member, good and bad. Improving from my weak starting position was a long process but I finally did start to get the hang of things. I ended up in a long-term relationship with a girl I'd never have been able to meet if it wasn't for that scene's advice.
I got involved enough with the Community to become familiar with all of its ins and outs. I have mixed feelings about it now. On one hand it has the potential to help a lot of guys, some of whom are very lonely and desperate. But it carries a lot of weird unhealthy baggage with it, aside from the actual advice on doing better with women. As a result several of the articles below are critical. I chalk this up to there just being a lot of things to criticize. I wish this wasn't the case, and hopefully one day the points in the articles below will be looked on as outdated and irrelevant. As it is, I feel I have to tell people about the scene's pitfalls, even if some readers think I'm being overly negative about it.
I eventually became so put off by the numerous weird aspects of the Community that one day I just decided I was done with it. I phased out my Community 'friends' and involvement entirely and went back to civilian life.
It would be overly simplistic to say I'm totally, 100% out of the scene. On one hand, I no longer hang out with anyone from it in real life, and I no longer keep in touch with anyone from it. I don't participate on any discussion forums. I have a girlfriend as I write this, but if I'm ever single again I'll be trying to meet new women on my own, no more sarging sessions with guys I barely know. A few Community members have contacted me to say they liked my writing and asked if I wanted to hang out or maybe enter into some kind of venture with them, and while I know they were good guys, I've respectfully taken a pass.
On the other hand, I still casually follow along with the Seduction Community from a distance. There are some blogs I follow as infotainment. I read some of its sites from time to time. I'm up to date on the general goings on. I, uh, wrote all the articles below. And I can't exactly unlearn all the skills I picked up while I was in it.
First a general one:
Can The Seduction Community Help Inexperienced Guys?
Then a few that are more critical, and which you need to be in the scene to really appreciate:
Detrimental Attitudes You Can Pick Up Through The Seduction Community
Odd But Mostly Harmless Things Guys In The Seduction Community Do
Some Core Reasons The Seduction Community Is So Weird
Weird Dynamics That Can Occur Between Seduction Community Members
Knowing The Community Is Flawed Is Pointless If You Don't Act On It